The question of what to do with a loved one’s remains after cremation comes up often. Sometimes families haven’t even thought that far ahead. Before the final decision is made, it would be best to keep a few things in mind.
First, realize that if you or someone in your immediate family decides to keep the ashes (cremains) at home, there will come a point later in the future when those who knew and dearly cared for the deceased individual will be fewer and fewer. Not to sound terrible, but honestly, over time the ashes will mean less and less to future surviving family members. That’s just the reality of it. I always try to help families understand the importance of some permanent resting place.
Next, understand that there might be someone (family, friend, ect) present or future, who might appreciate the opportunity to visit the grave of their deceased loved one or friend. That’s very difficult to do if there’s not a permanent resting place.
If one feels the need to keep a small portion of ashes, fine. Our website ashestoashescremation.com has several different options available to them. There are many full sized adult urns, or keepsake urns (for smaller portions) to choose from.
Having a permanent final resting place for the placement of all (or most) of your loved one’s cremated remains will also be beneficial to the grieving process of all involved. There’s something almost medicinal about the peace and tranquility of visiting a loved one’s grave. The peace of mind received as they pray, cry, converse, read a book, pulls some weeds, etc. will help the grieving process more than people realize. The importance of a final resting place for the placement of all or most of your loved one’s cremated remains (ashes), cannot be stressed enough.
